Farewell: See You Next School Year

This week is the last week of school for Smiley Face. Naturally our car conversations will end this week. And for the following week, as I wrap-up end of the year stuff at school, I will be driving to work alone. While it’s only one week, I will miss driving to work with Smiley Face. So as a tribute to our time together this year, I will post our last thought provoking conversation and I will repost my favorite Car Chronicles conversation.

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On our way to school, Smiley Face and I always listen to NPR. The news for the past month or so has been terrible. Natural calamaties around the world and in the United States have claimed many lives.

The morning when we learned about the Cyclone that devastated Myanmar, Smiley Face ask me the following question:

“Daddy, if people don’t die and earthquake, cyclones, and tsunamis happened, would you say that what happened was ca-tos-tro-phic, did I say it right?”

“Yes you said it right. I guess if no one died then it’s not catastrophic. It would still be bad though because people will definitely be hurt.”

“But if no one is hurt and no people were around to feel the effects of these things, would it still be ca-tos-tro-phic?”

“I guess not.” I answered.

“Yeah, I wish people didn’t have to live in places where they can get hurt.” She said with sadness.

“I’m there with you.”

We usually listen to NPR until we are close to the school and then we change the station to listen to music. But that day, even though we were still 45 minutes away from school, we started listening to music.

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Editor’s Note: The Holy Trinity was originally posted on January 29, 2008, Wat da Wat’s first post, categorized under Car Chronicles.

The Holy Trinity

Jan-29-2008
Car Chronicles, Parenting

On our way to school this morning the issue of religion crept into our conversation. I wished I had the luxury of searching Google when Nikki asks me the following question.

“Daddy, how can God be Jesus and the Holy Ghost at the same time?”

I had to pause. I was at a lost for words; a spiritual map would have been good right about this time to help me navigate through this difficult concept. I wanted to throw in a couple of jokes but thank God I didn’t.

I told her that this is a concept that even adults have difficulty understanding. But out from nowhere as I made my turn on Devon and Kedzie, an answer came to me.

I asked her, “Nikki what’s Daddy’s job?”

She said, “You are a teacher.”

“You are correct” I stated.

“I am also your father, Grandma’s son, Tita Lei’s brother, and Mama’s husband.”

“I am all these things but I am the same person. That’s how God is. God is the son and the Holy Ghost and still be the one God.”

As always, she looked at me gave the same smile she always gives and went back to watching the stores and cars as we passed them by.

  1. Susie Said,

    Out of the mouths of babes! Gotta love their honesty and their way of thinking! Mine is driving himself to school, ironically enough, just went past the grade school today, and remembered those afternoon catch up sessions in the car! Hold on to the memory, they grow very quick, and soon you will be in the DMV.. more nervous than Smiley Face, leaving your book, his social security card, birth certificate and your cell phone on the back of the toilet, cuz your baby is getting their license.

    Not recommended to leave all that stuff laying around! :)
    Susies last blog post..They Call it Stormy Monday

  1. RC Said,

    Love your answer on the Holy Trinity! Nice job, dad!

    RCs last blog post..Surviving the first day

  1. Vered Said,

    What a relief, I thought your title meant you were going to stop blogging until the next school year!

    I love reading about your car conversations.

    “I wish people didn’t have to live in places where they can get hurt” - this is very true. Even here, in Northern California, I sometimes wonder if it’s not a mistake to live in an area that is prone to earthquakes.

    Vereds last blog post..Best Shot Monday: Old, But Still Moving

  1. Dette Said,

    OMG - I love that! Father, son, brother and husband - all at the same time. What a wonderful analogy to explain the trinity…

    Dettes last blog post..Winter Playground Secrets

  1. Well done with your answer! We all love to listen to NPR in the car too. This past month has been quite difficult to hear.

    Sandy (Momisodes)s last blog post..A Jill of No Shades

  1. Melanie Said,

    What an excellent way to describe the trinity. I woulnd’t have been able to come up with an example like that one!!

  1. Marelisa Said,

    You know, that would make a good little book: “Car Conversations With My Child”.

  1. @Susie–I have a 20 yr. old and an 18 yr. old both drive their own cars. I know what you mean…*sigh*

    @Vered–You’re not getting rid of me that easily… :)

    @Dette and Melanie–Thanks, I surprised myself how quickly I arrived at the explanation.

    @Sandy–Yeah I love NPR but sometimes they just kill my day with all the sad news.

    @Marelisa–Thanks for the idea. You know I’ve been working on a book for the past 3 years now?

  1. Storm Said,

    your smiley face also would we well named as smart cookie. i have often given thanks to live where i do. we are not known for a number of these catastrophic events we have recently seen. the brutality of mother nature can break your heart.

    storm

    Storms last blog post..my weekend

  1. Pinay Jade Said,

    Wow that’s beautifully said Chris! Seems like you are so good in answering questions.I agree with MArelisa, you should make a book!

    Pinay Jades last blog post..Funny Signs - Wordless Wednesday

  1. Yvie Said,

    Hi Chris! I’ve read your about section and I am happy to see a Filipino dedicated to his family and to his mission. I am also a Filipino and I bid you success in your endeavor.

    Kamusta na po dyan? :) I hope you’re all doing great.

    The Philippine education system hasn’t still changed. Sadly, there is “politics” in every area in the Philippines. But I for one supports your desire for change.

    P.S. I found your link from “A Whole Lot of Nothing.” I liked your comment there and I clicked your link. Glad that I did. :)
    Yvies last blog post..Bohol Trekker

  1. Hi Chris,

    I think we all agree we will miss the car chronicles. They are such a joy to read.

    I, too, am in agreement of the book idea. :)
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  1. Bruno Said,

    For a while I stopped listening to the news - tired of listening to all the catastrophes around the world - then came the primaries and Clinton - Now I’m back in the “know” when it comes to disasters. :( I think i’ll bow out now.

    Did I hear someone say, “BOOK?”

    Brunos last blog post..Confusion

  1. Grandy Said,

    WELL DONE!!!

    Can you help me with the question I got from my son last night?

    “Mom, if someone is a Satan Worshiper, do they go to hell and work all the time? I heard that when you go to heaven you don’t have to work. Do they just work hard all the time in hell?”

    …long…pause…

    “Honey, I don’t know…did you finish your homework?”

    Whaoawha?? What kind of answer is that?!?

    Grandys last blog post..Perhaps I could start a business?

  1. @Pinay Jade, Barbara, and Bruno–You guys flatter me too much. *blush*

    @Grandy–Try this one. “Son, I don’t know and I don’t want to find out. Now do your homework so that you too won’t find out.” LOL That’s tough one…
    What about this one…”Well if you do God’s work on earth, then in heaven you can take a long vacation. And if you take a vacation from God’s work on earth, then you will surely work it off in hell.”

  1. Rebecca Said,

    That was a good answer! :)
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  1. Grandy Said,

    Good answer again Grasshopper!! :)
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  1. That brought a smile onto my face for today. You’ve answered that in as simple explanation and illustration that is easily understood. :)
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